I’ve been in love, out of love, infatuated. The love killed, the love sizzled. I’ve been in suicide thoughts, I’ve been done did a ton of stupid in my life. I’ve been betrayed. Been loved. Been back stabbed. But I also have had happiness and laughs. I also loved with all my heart. I have had children that weren’t mine because they made a sincere part of my life to become a mother one day. I have loved to know one day I want to a wife. I have had a house with my parents to realize I want a house and I want to struggle because I love living. I love what I went through. Whether it was bad or great. Hurtful and loving. We ALL go through it. We might go through bad for so long but you have to look at the good in that. I know it’s hard. I’ve been there. I’ve done that. It’s not easy to forget. Not ever easy to let go. But there will come a day where it will stop hurting. It will give you a break. You just have to faith. Because I promise your parents, your grandparents all went through it. They probably aren’t the best. But they did it and you can do better. Make a appearance even when you’re forgotten. You feel left out. FORGET IT. You will be in place with people that will never forget you. Go out there. Be yourself. Be happy. Live your life. But their will be pain. Their will be hurt. BUT that’s what makes your memories! That makes you you. Just always let your lessons make you into a better person. Never the opposite. Don’t attack yourself. Attack everything that will make you do that. Be happy. I promise it’s a wonderful feeling.
In the end
these things matter most:
How well did you love?
How fully did you live?
How deeply did you let go?
Even if we’re married for 23 years,
I still want you to flirt with me.
Life is hard and it’s full of pain and what-not, but we take it cause there’s great stuff too. And we can do it cause we have friends - because we have each other.Luke Shapiro (via psych-facts)